My boyfriend is in the military...?

hey ive been dating my boyfriend for 5 years and he's in the military. he's deployed right now in afghanistan. they get back from BMT and their stressed and tired, it comes really fast everything with the military. you have to basically just do everything possible to keep things neutral and like most of us girls, avoid getting on their last nerve. its a big adjustment, if you need more advice don't hesitate to contact me - courtneyv1988@yahoo.com