Disabled husband's cell phone, right or wrong?

Your RULES? Yet you say he is controlling. Maybe instead of yelling and nagging at him and setting down rules as you would with a child, you should ask him to not call while you are busy. Ask him to text you and if you aren't busy you will call him back. Most women would like their husband to call more, maybe you could look an the bright side, at least he WANTS to call you!